I have turned back to tried and tested , Elizabeth Pantley- The No-Cry Sleep Solution. The Toddler version was a ray of light when I was struggling with Ashley and she seemed to be the sole voice of reason in a tidal wave of 'advice' from 'experts'.
If, like me, crying-it-out is not an option, but you dont fancy waking up 8 times in an 8 hour stretch, then she is the woman for you. She is breastfeeding and co-sleeping friendly and lays out several workable strategies that you can pick and choose from with the aim of achieving that magical thing- to sleep through the night. Note that the medical definition of this is to sleep for 5 (is that too much to ask for) consecutive hours. So I wont be expecting that mythical 7 'til 7 dream. Not straight away anyway.
Time to stake through the heart of Zombie-Karli and resurrect the bright-eyed and bushy-tailed Karli.
So we did a sleep log last night. Click through to see what it looked like...
Bedtime 6.30 | Lights out 7.00 | Asleep 7.10 | Mood/method/time taken Cried, 5 mins, bounced, to shoulder | Put down awake? Yes Repeat? No | ||||
Wake | Sleep | Time taken to settle | Reason /Mood/Method to Sleep | Time slept- | ||||
8.10 | - | 1 minute | Patted | 1 hour | ||||
9.15 | 9.20 | 5 mins | Ashley woke her, cried, Nurse 1 side | 1 h, 5 mins | ||||
11 | 11.05 | 5 mins | My bed time,Cried, nurse 2 sides, nappy | 1 h 40 | ||||
11.22 | 11.33 | 11 mins | Nurse 2 sides | 20 mins | ||||
2.04 | 2.18 | 14 mins | Nurse | 1 h 30 m | ||||
2.37 | 2.48 | 11 mins | Nurse | 20 mins | ||||
4.16 | 4.34 | 18 mins | Nurse | 1h 30 m | ||||
6.22 | 6.33 | 11 mins | Nurse | 1h 50 mins | ||||
7.30 | Up | Nurse | 1hour | |||||
Total sleep-10hours 15mins
Number of wakings- 8
Longest sleep- 1h 50mins
Longest sleep- 1h 50mins
Notes- Vomitted in morning, not well
I am exhausted just looking at it. And to make things worse, Spuddy was up vomitting in the night so I was actually out of bed on three occasions not listed here.
Maybe not the best night to start a sleep log but I did it anyway, random notes scattered by the bed in the morning, almost un-readable. Note to self- write really big tonight. Tiny scribble number to hard to decypher.
And then this morning I decided to write it all up in a log but couldn't find a printable so I made this one above. If I had of looked on Elzabeth's website i would have found this brilliant one. Which is perfect. Sleep depivation strikes again...
Things can only improve from here. Can't they?
P.S. Ive just read this wake-up call from the Analytical Armadillo. She rocks...
And then this morning I decided to write it all up in a log but couldn't find a printable so I made this one above. If I had of looked on Elzabeth's website i would have found this brilliant one. Which is perfect. Sleep depivation strikes again...
Things can only improve from here. Can't they?
P.S. Ive just read this wake-up call from the Analytical Armadillo. She rocks...
My god Karli, you must be absolutely shattered.
ReplyDeleteYes, it truly looks like it can only get better.. I hope everyone is 100% well soon, so you can start trying to achieve a good sleep-solution for you and Fae. xx
Thanks Lucy, nice to hear from you. Will we see you and your little fam before we jet off to paradise? ie Melbourne...
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